Talking helps
If you’re feeling low or out of sorts, talking is often the best way to start feeling better.
Feeling down isn’t a natural part of ageing. Low mood, depression and anxiety don’t just become a feature of life as you get older – they're signs that you're not feeling as well as you could be.
If you’re feeling out of sorts and have any of these symptoms for two weeks or more, you may be experiencing depression or anxiety:
Find out more about depression and anxiety
If you have any of these symptoms frequently, speak to your doctor and explain how you’re feeling. Together you can agree on what next steps may be best for you.
Even though it can be difficult to admit you're feeling low, a chat with your doctor or nurse is an important place to start. If you’re feeling nervous about talking to your doctor, it’s fine to ask someone to go with you to your appointment. It might not seem like it right now, but talking really does help.
There are plenty of reasons why you might be feeling like you do. But there also may be no clear reason at all – and that’s fine too.
But thinking about some of the most common things that can affect how we all feel might help you understand the feelings you’re experiencing and think about the steps you can take. Most people experience these things throughout their lives, though it can sometimes feel like they happen more often as we get older. But it’s important to remember, it’s not just your age.
Many people look forward to retirement. But often people can be so busy thinking about what they’re retiring from that they don’t take time to think about what they’re retiring to. For many people, the lack of routine and sense of purpose can impact their mental health.
Grieving is different for everyone and, for many, can last a long time. This process can be a rollercoaster of emotions and you're likely to have good days and bad days. It's normal to experience a variety of different feelings such as sadness, anger, frustration or even relief. If you’re struggling to cope with the bad days, then it may be time to seek help and support.
Find out more about what support is available if you're coping with a bereavement
Looking after your loved one is rewarding, but it can also be exhausting and even frustrating at times. It can feel like it takes over our lives and can affect how we feel mentally. It can be hard to ask for support as a carer, as you might feel guilty because you think you should only be focused on the person you’re caring for – but you shouldn’t neglect your own needs. It's OK to reach out and admit it's all getting a bit much.
Find out what support you can get as a carer
Worrying about money can lead to sleepless nights and make us anxious. If you’re having money worries or are living on a low income, why not use our benefits calculator to see if you're eligible for any benefits? If you’re worried about debt, you’re not alone and there is help available. It’s never too early to seek help for money worries.
See our debt advice page for more information
As we get older, poor health can affect our confidence, make us less independent and make us feel more anxious. It can become harder to get out and do the things we once enjoyed, which can be very frustrating and get us down. Side effects of certain medications can also have an impact on our feelings. Make sure you don’t stop taking any medication before speaking to your doctor as it can be dangerous to stop suddenly.
Worrying about those we care about most can really affect how we feel. They may be experiencing one of these issues themselves, or you might be worrying about things that could happen in the future. If possible, try to talk about any problems before they have a chance to escalate. If you feel like you can’t talk or relate to family and friends, consider speaking to your doctor instead.
Drinking too much could leave you feeling out of sorts. It can often lead to feelings of low mood and anxiety. That doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a glass of wine or a dram of whisky every now and then – just try to do it in moderation.
Find out more advice about alcohol
It’s not uncommon for our mood to change with the seasons. Many of us feel better in the summer and feel low in the colder, darker winter months. You may commonly hear this referred to as the ‘winter blues’. But for some people, the different seasons can have a significant impact on their mental wellbeing. This is called Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD, and can leave you feeling tired, withdrawn and depressed or anxious.
We offer support through our free advice line on 0800 678 1602. Lines are open 8am-7pm, 365 days a year. We also have specialist advisers at over 120 local Age UKs.
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